When we are told that we need to have heart surgery, we rightly do not want to have the surgery first. This is the first reaction that occurs as a result of fear. We start researching "How can I get over it without surgery?" and start going from doctor to doctor. At this stage, we feel like we are reborn when one of the doctors says, "You don't need surgery." We are constantly attached to that doctor, both materially and spiritually. The truth is, our complaints...